Please!
No Mas On Elian!
by Bud Malmsten
Let me add that the things I have learned since then have made me
more sure that this little boy is being used by his Miami
"relatives" for their own purposes without any concern
for his welfare.
If they truly cared about him, why would they have been keeping
him in the middle of potentially very hostile confrontations. Why
would they not have been spending their time with him relieving
his natural anxieties. Children do not like it when adults fight,
and they do not like to perceive themselves as the cause of
adults fighting.
One assurance for all the Cuba haters. When Elian returns to Cuba
with his Dad [as ALL true "family values" people must
insist], he will be the most watched child in the communist
world. The full force of Castro's regime will be marshaled to
make sure that Elian grows up safe and healthy. They may be
wrong, but they are far from stupid! Fifteen years from now,
Elian will be 21 years old. I pray that his memories of the
United States include the notion that this is a place of peace,
where people do the right thing, not only when forced to do so,
but just because it is the right thing to do.
A couple questions for the Miami "relatives:"
-Whose agenda was served by having an AP photographer in the home
at 5:00
AM?
-How have you explained the death of Elian's mother to the boy? I
got a vague impression from something I heard that he may be
wondering why she has not come to get him yet. I would love to be
reassured about that. Can anyone shed light on this?
By Sunday the Miami's were crying loudly about the fear in the
boy's face as pictured by the AP photog. Why was he
afraid? Did it ever occur to them that they had taught him
to fear us? The terror lasted for Elian as long as he was
uncertain about where he was going. As soon as he knew he
was heading for Dad, he seemed to brighten up measurably.
The Miami's should hesitate to call attention to the fact that it
was in their home that Elian was frightened. When he left
there the fear left him.
My concern has been that there are people who are so focused on
bringing down the Clinton administration that they forbid
themselves from acknowledging anything that could be seen as
agreeing with any White House position.
Don't get me wrong. I am no Clinton supporter. I was
chagrined when Clinton "won" the 1992 election, and
mortified when he was reelected in 1996. Where has the
moral fiber of our nation gone? I am very disappointed that our
Senate did not have the courage to convict on the articles of
impeachment when they had the opportunity. Where has the moral
fiber of our nation gone?
Well, my sister-in-law sent me the most thoughtful letter I have
yet seen. She caused me to at least stop and consider another
point of view. I still believe this issue should never have been
allowed to escalate into an international incident. This
six year old boy has already experienced too much trauma.
His Miami "relatives" have no family claim on him
comparable to that of his biological father. I am sorry
that we have given the Cuban "reprogrammers' so much
ammunition to feed this boy concerning the "evils of life in
the USA."
I would be delighted if Daddy Juan somehow got the message to US
officials that he really does want to remain here under
asylum. But if that is not the case, our commitment to
freedom must be deep enough to give him the freedom to take his
son back to Cuba. And our trust in the truth [and the
Author of Truth] must be patient enough to wait for Elian to make
his own comparisons.
My sister-in-law's final words put the whole dilemma in
perspective:
"I DON'T KNOW what the answer should. Looks to me like a
Solomon type issue, that is unresolvable, unless someone is
willing to give up their rights in favor of the boy, and not for
personal gain for everyone."
What a wonderful suggestion. What if all these parties
could put down their weapons for a time and simply talk with each
other, without the lawyers!?!?!
What a concept!
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